Ugly men dating beautiful women
How did we get here and why is the situation so extreme?
Haven’t you ever met a girl you thought was the hottest thing in the world, then once you got to know her… And after you know how lame she is, you may still think she’s hot, but you’re just not really to her.Even if you weren’t born looking like Brad Pitt, women will find you sexy.Here’s a short list of personality traits that make guys hot to us: This all being said, an unattractive man is still a man, and at the end of the day, we women have needs too! “Because I think I am an interesting woman when I look at myself on screen.And if, like David Buss, I’d interviewed 10,000 people in 37 different cultures, and found that, all over the world, women want men to look like strong providers, grizzled or not, I’d tell you that this was not surprising. Sure, some male actors and celebrities are very good looking. In fact, you might almost say that most leading men are normal-looking blokes. Bryan Cranston, who plays the lead in Breaking Bad – he’s a normal. In The Evolution of Desire, David Buss, professor of psychology at the University of Texas, says that it all comes down to the basics of sex. Women are attracted to men who will make good providers.
Russell Crowe, Kevin Spacey, Bruce Willis, Jack Black, Seth Rogen, Martin Freeman, Tom Hanks, Steve Carell, Jim Carrey, Will Ferrell, Vince Vaughn, Brendan Fraser… That, they say, is because it’s an essential part of the human condition.
Or how about a girl who barely caught your eye at first, but became incredibly sexy after a good conversation?
A person's personality absolutely affects his or her sex appeal—the way they talk, what they say, the way they move, that je ne sais quoi.
But according to researchers in the Netherlands, when women are turned on, it overrides their disgust response.
So maybe that guy who seems like nothing special as you walk by him is a complete stud in the sack…and his personality is what helps get women there in the first place. And in fact, I’d even argue that long-term, they’re not much at all.
And all of those qualities are impossible to decipher from physical appearance alone.