Rules for dating my brother
IF you get through all of these requirements, and it's a big if, i will require an interview, fingerprinting and to meet any and all family and friends you associate with closely.(Lili stop giving me that look. IF you get through that also, and that's an even bigger if, i will require that i chaperone all dates. and i'd prefer to set them up and decide where they will take place.(*sigh*stop sighing Lili)9. you might not know where i carry it on me, but i always have one.
And this is why it is so important for a woman not to initiate contact with a man.This is complicated by the fact that it is perfectly possible for a man that is less attractive than a girl to be sexually attracted to her and interested in her as a person (i.e. not overwhelmed by her beauty so much that he doesn't consider her personality). At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.I wrote a similar post about not initiating contact after a guy breaks up with you.A woman's "game" can be broken down into the following three parts: While there is a lot to learn about the first part of female game (optimizing attractiveness), there is just as much to learn about the latter part (filtering).
Filtering is necessary because the men that a woman wants to date are a subset of the men that want to have sex with her, and by making herself more attractive to potential boyfriends she also is making herself more attractive to all men.
A man might make eye contact with you from across the bar, but unless he overcomes his fear or leaves his buddies in order to approach you, he isn't into you enough. A man might say he wants to see you, but unless he calls to set up a date, he doesn't care enough. A man might tell you to come and visit him, but if he cares enough, he will come to you if you suggest it.
I could give all kinds of examples, but you get the point.
I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
If you find yourself having difficulty determining a man's level of interest because "first he said X, but then he said Y," or even if you know exactly what he is saying and are sure he is interested, stop yourself.