Christian dating a muslim girl
Radically, challenging their boundaries has meant that growing numbers are choosing to marry out their faith.In the UK, 21,000 interfaith marriages were recorded in 2001.
In the early days of my relationship, I assumed that the only challenge would be from my mother, my only close relative.Like Bond, she says transgressing women rejected by their families often withdraw from their faith, as they are unable to enter a mosque or interact with the community.The Syrian passport control officer glared at me after I crossed the once peaceful Lebanese-Syrian border seventeen years ago.According to one of the guards, this was a necessary ritual because “Jews occasionally want to break into the sacred site.”In England, the challenges and grilling continued.One night was particularly distressing when a well-educated, senior medical colleague of mine (a doctor) volunteered, “to educate me” about how God would punish me if my husband stopped performing his Islamic duties.Although stopping short of endorsing interfaith marriage, the religious figures of the Christian Muslim Forum, have encouraged counseling for such couples and oppose forced conversion as a condition for marriage.
For 22 years, Mandy Sanghera has worked with women who have married out of their faith, and counseled their family members.
Although no new statistics on the issue have been released since then, imams in the UK told Al Jazeera that these figures have surged in recent years.
Imam Taj Hargey of the Muslim Educational Centre of Oxford is an exception.
Muslim leaders always tried hard to avoid such a nightmarish scenario, which considered capture by Christians as a disgraceful loss of honour.
The impact of those medieval religious wars is still ingrained in the Muslim psyche.
I was wrong; the challenges extended far beyond the immediate family.